Ashley Ariñez
Gardening (and Crafts) with a Toddler 101
I tend to be a controller - a very controlling controller. I make lists and I plan out contingency plans A, B and C for nearly every aspect of my life. When it comes...
To The Lonely Mama
I know what it's like to be lonely. Really, I do. I moved from South Carolina to Missouri not knowing one soul other than my husband and daughter. We found a great church to...
Why I Love Valentine’s Day (and Ways we Celebrate)
I never had a Valentine until I was 24 (thanks for booing me up, husband!), but I always loved the idea of celebrating it. Before "Galentine's Day" was a thing I would share sweet...
A Year Like No Other
Today I sang a Christmas song to my daughter before her nap. The holidays have all passed and I’m still feeling the joy that usually ends on December 25 at 9:59pm.
Oh, what song? It’s...
A Southerner in the Midwest: Winter Edition
My family has officially been in St. Louis for five months! Both my husband and I are from the deep south and some days it feels like we are in a whole new world. ...
Growing Our Family After Postpartum Depression
Trigger Warning: This piece contains details about one mom’s struggles with postpartum depression and anxiety which may be triggering to others.
There I was with a pregnancy test in-hand and tears streaming down my face....
Remembering Our Angel Babies
There’s a candle holder with a small candle that sits on a shelf on a bookcase in our great room. That particular shelf sits closer to the floor and every now and then our...
Finding Peace at the Polls
I love fall, I really do. But, there’s one part of fall that comes every two years like clockwork that makes me cringe: elections.
What was once a time to express opinions in the polling...
On The Breastfeeding Journey
For months, I was ashamed of the fact that my body simply could not produce milk for my daughter.
I went to La Leche League meetings.
I visited the brand new breastfeeding center in my town...
When Self-Care Meets Self-Discipline
I did it. I kicked my husband and 12.5-month-old daughter out of the house. I did. I needed to for my well-being and theirs, too. They also needed a break.
Self-care is not selfish.
I had...